First, you'll want to start with your invites. If you choose coral wedding invitations, you'll want to pick something that not only announces your colors, but announces the formality of your wedding. Your invitations say much more than just the date and time of the wedding, it also eludes to how formal the wedding will be, the colors, the food, and more. And be sure not to include your registry on the invitations, it's poor form.

Next, move onto your wedding decor, you'll want lots of coral color (or actual coral) scattered throughout your venue. You can pair coral with khaki, green, fuchsia, brown, or simply white or black. It's a very versatile color and will look lovely against many different hues.

Coral weddings are absolutely beautiful, but if you can choose a venue that is on the beach or something similar (such as a laid back chalet, or cabin) it's an added bonus. Choosing a venue that goes with your theme is just as important as finding one that suits your personalities as a couple. This is why at times it can seem so hard to choose a venue! But as long as you have a plan, you're closer to completing this task.

Once you've got your invitations, decor, and fashion chosen, you'll most likely want to move on to your smaller details such as wedding favors. To choose something that really goes with your theme, you don't have to necessarily go with something coral-colored but you certainly can! If you think you have enough coral related items, why not extend the beach relation and offer beach wedding favors? They're cute and the subtle variety will go a long way when you look out at your tables.

Here are a few cute options that you could look into for beach wedding favors:

There are so many ways you could go with a coral wedding scheme. Just make sure it is true to you and your fiance's personalities and lifestyle. Your wedding is all about you, so make sure your decor, your food, your music, and everything else is right in line with who you are together and you can't go wrong!

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]]> http://www.weddingfavorsunlimited.com/bridal_blog/2012/05/09/coral-wedding-inspiration/feed/ 0 http://www.weddingfavorsunlimited.com/bridal_blog/2012/04/25/when-it-comes-to-bridesmaids-gifts-personalization-is-the-key/ http://www.weddingfavorsunlimited.com/bridal_blog/2012/04/25/when-it-comes-to-bridesmaids-gifts-personalization-is-the-key/#comments Wed, 25 Apr 2012 15:16:02 +0000 Sarah http://www.weddingfavorsunlimited.com/bridal_blog/?p=3100 Choosing friends and family members to be a part of your bridal party can be a difficult decision. That is why it is important to choose bridesmaids who are special to you, and who you want to be included in your wedding. Some brides make the mistake of choosing bridesmaids out of obligation. Remember that it is your wedding, and only you can decide who you want to be a part of it. It is tradition to reward your bridesmaids with a special gift for participating in your wedding. Choosing bridesmaids gifts doesn't have to be a complicated process. It can actually be quite fun. The key is to purchase gifts that not only have a special significance, but that your bridesmaids can also use once the wedding is over.

Don't just purchase gifts that you can get for a reasonable price, or because you happen to think they are cute. Make sure that you purchase gifts that your bridesmaids will like. After all, bridal party gifts are your thank you gifts to all of your bridesmaids. One sure way to let your bridesmaids know just how grateful you really are is to personalize the bridesmaids' gifts. It can really make a difference. For example, if you purchase a handbag from a popular retail store for each of your bridesmaids then they will probably appreciate the gift. But if you purchase a personalized handbag with each of the bridesmaids' initials on separate bag, then they will not only appreciate it - they will love it! A personalized gift shows that you cared enough to put some thought into the bridal party gifts, instead of just choosing something because you got it at a good price.

Being a part of a wedding is quite the ordeal. Bridesmaids have to purchase a dress, stand up in the wedding, and participate in the ceremony in addition to buying a separate wedding gift for the bride and groom. It costs a lot of money to be in a wedding these days, which is why you shouldn't compromise on the bridesmaids gifts. Go that extra mile and personalize your gifts. You'll be surprised at how something so simple can make such a huge difference. After all, you want your bridesmaids to be glad that they were asked to participate in your wedding. You want them to have a good time, and to remember the day in a special way.

Bridesmaids' gifts are more than just wedding favors or tokens of appreciation. They are special keepsake items that will last a lifetime, and they also let your bridesmaids know how special they are to you. When you are planning your bridal party gifts, take some time to sit down and think about the kinds of things that your bridesmaids like and enjoy. Make a list of possible gift ideas. Then decide which one is best for everyone. After you have chosen a gift, think about how you can personalize it for each of your bridesmaids. That little extra step will go a very long way.

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The Best Man's role includes making sure the groom doesn't forget anything, most notably the ring. He is responsible for the bachelor party and ensures that all details have been handled, to ensure the wedding goes smoothly and without any mishaps. For his important role in your wedding, you will want to get him a special best man gift - just for him - that will show your appreciation and help him to remember the special day forever.

You want a unique gift for your Best Man - something that will speak volumes to him and carry a personal distinction that it is from you to him. It will show him how much you value his friendship. Gifts that will do this don't have to come with a huge price tag. Many great groomsmen gifts can be purchased for quite reasonable prices that will fit your sentiment nicely.

Because your Best Man is probably one of your best friends, you probably know his favorite hobbies, sports teams, likes, dislikes, passions, etc. That will help when you are looking for just the right gift. Does he like to grill out? Is he the "Grill Master" of all his backyard BBQs or tailgating parties? If so, then an ideal gift might be a personalized chef grill apron. You can often get free personalization on gifts you purchase, and there's nothing more unique than having a special item that will mean something to him with his name emblazoned on it. Personalized gifts show how much your friendship means to you.

Maybe your Best Man is an avid golfer. If so, you could choose from a wide variety of golf accessories including a personalized multi-function golf tool that offers a magnetic ball marker, a groove cleaner, a divot repair device, knife, brush, and key tag - then place it all into a golf gift basket. There's also a golf shoe bag that can be personalized. Whatever his favorite hobby or passion, you can find a unique gift and have it personalized to commemorate your special occasion. He will always know and remember how much you appreciated his being there for you on your wedding day.

Is your Best Man a poker player? Does he like to down a few in a bar at the end of a long work week? He might just really enjoy a vintage pub sign that is personalized just for him to hang in his home. Pub signs are made with a variety of hobbies in mind, including fishing, golf, motorcycles, and the classic "Texas Hold-Em" poker variety.

With such options available from which to choose, you're sure to find a unique thank you gift with just the right price tag for your Best Man. It's a special occasion; commemorate it with the friend that stood up with you on your day to remember.

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That is the average cost of a wedding, according to a survey conducted by bridal resource, The Knot.  If that figure leaves you speechless – and more than a little scared – you’re not alone!  But remember, this figure is driven up by lavish nuptials costing $40,000 and more.  People can, and do, have lovely, unforgettable weddings for less.  Regardless of your specific budget, however, it is important to create a wedding essentials checklist to keep costs from spiraling out of control.  It can also help keep your emotions from spiraling out of control by giving you increased peace of mind.  So, how do you start?

At the beginning, of course.  Take a look at your budget and how much you have saved for your wedding.  Traditionally, certain parts of the wedding and ceremony have been paid for by the bride’s family, while the groom’s family assumes other financial responsibilities.  If you have family that is willing and able to help, this is what is traditionally paid for by each side:

Bride:

• Groom’s engagement ring
• Gifts for groom and brides’ attendants
• Groom’s tuxedos and accessories

Groom:

• Bride’s engagement ring
• Gifts for bride and groomsmen
• Boutonnieres for groom, fathers, grandfathers, and groomsmen
• Corsages for mothers and grandmothers
• Bouquets for bride

Bride’s Family

• Invitations
• Announcements
• Postage
• Wedding stationary
• Bride’s gown and accessories
• Flowers and décor for ceremony and reception
• Flowers for bridesmaids
• Ceremony location fee
• Wedding reception location fee
• Food and beverages
• Photographer/videographer
• Transportation rentals
• Entertainment for reception
• Wedding cake
• Engagement party

Groom’s Family:

• Officiant’s fee
• Marriage license fee
• Rehearsal dinner

If you notice, the bride’s family has a long list!  This is a “traditional” list that may be too outdated for modern couples.  But if you do have family who are eager to help, this can give you direction. The bride’s family does not have to pay for all of the items on the list, but if they could take care of, for instance, the flowers or the wedding cake, that is an expense you can check off your list.

Next, when you have an idea of what resources you have, and what others are going to contribute, you can start nailing down specifics.  Find a wedding budget checklist format online that you can print out.  They are widely available, but here is a good one.

Take a look at each expense and cross off those that do not apply to your wedding.  For instance, if you are having your best friend do the photography, you do not have to worry about that fee (though a nice gift would be a thoughtful gesture).  Likewise, if you plan on doing your own hair, makeup, and nails, you can cut those off the checklist immediately.

Next, it is important to do some preliminary research, and this is why people start planning their weddings a year in advance!  How much are typical reception venues in your area?  How much are typical dresses, cakes, flowers, and professional services (photographers, DJs, etc.)?  How much will your officiant charge?  Call around, look at your local wedding supplements, or go to area bridal shows to get a sense of how much things cost.

ProjectWedding has a great expense checklist on which you can enter in your zip code.  It displays the average overall budget for your area, as well as a breakdown of expenses.  You can delete subcategories that do not apply to you, add those that do, and record what you have spent thus far. The breakdown by category and subcategory can help you keep spending in check and even cut down on extraneous costs (Can you eliminate a full bar?  Can you have a backyard BBQ in lieu of a formal rehearsal dinner?).

Having a wedding that fits your preference and your budget is possible.  You just have to plan, prepare, and keep your expense checklist updated!

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The average wedding in the United States is over $26,500 – but that doesn’t mean your budget has to match that.  It can be more, certainly, but rest assured it can also be less.  Let’s take a look at average costs before we delve into budgeting for your wedding.  According to the Brides American Wedding Study, the reception eats up 36 percent of the total wedding budget, costing an average of $13,367.  Photography/videography, wedding rings, and flowers are also sizeable chunks.  The cake typically costs a bit under $500.  The average engagement ring is $4,647, almost four times as much as the average gown.

One way to determine your wedding budget, as suggested in the blog, AWeddingtoDreamof, is to calculate the number of months before the wedding by how much you can save each month (as soon as you’re engaged, start setting money aside! It’s time to save in earnest).  To this, add contributions from parents and other savings.  Subtract 5 percent for unexpected expenses, and this is your wedding budget.  While this tradition is eroding, many brides’ parents still contribute to the wedding, while many grooms’ families pay part or all of the expenses for the rehearsal dinners.  If your family is going to help out, factor that in. Otherwise, plan for the amount you have saved.

Say, all told, you have a budget of $20,000.  You may not be able to get a Pnina Tornai from Kleinfeld’s but you can have a great wedding.  Start by listing the elements which you must pay for (we have also listed a suggested portion of your budget for each). While these items will vary, they typically include:

• The ceremony, including location fee, officiant fee, license, ceremony music, and ring pillows (3 percent of total budget).
• Reception including cake, wedding favors, food, drinks, rentals, and location (48 percent of total budget).
• Attire, including dress and veil or headpiece, undergarments, shoes, accessories, jewelry, hair, makeup, tuxedo, shoes, bow tie, cuff links, and suspenders (10 percent).
• Rings. His and hers and engraving (3 percent).
• Flowers (8 percent).
• Music, sound system rental (8 percent).
• Photography (12 percent).
• Transportation for wedding party and/or parking attendants (2 percent).
• Stationary, including invitations, response cards, postage, guest book, and thank you notes (3 percent).
• Gifts for bridesmaids, groomsmen, parents, and welcome baskets for out-of-town guests (3 percent).

Using your budget of $10,000, you figure out what you can spend on each aspect of the wedding. Using this formula, though, you’ll see that you pay $1,000 for the bride’s and groom’s attire.  Is that enough?  Could you “borrow” from another category?  Say you cut your own wildflowers or enlist friends to do so: can you use some or most of that 8 percent for your attire?  Could you borrow jewelry and do your own hair and makeup and use more of that allotment for your dress?  Could you use your backyard and forgo the venue fee?  Can you slim down your guest list?

There are many ways to cut down on costs or at least readjust them so you can spend more on the elements that mean most to you.  Setting a budget does not have to dampen your wedding; in fact, it is one of the first things you do after you get engaged – after you call your best friend.  The best advice is to start saving and stick to your budget.  Today’s couples are doing more with less and starting their own traditions that are thrifty and fabulous.

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According to Emily Post, etiquette guru, almost half of brides and grooms cited how to ask for money as a gift as their most pressing etiquette concern.  But there is good news: almost 80 percent of consumers prefer to give cash.  The trick is to make sure those consumers are at your wedding!  No, the trick is not appearing rude.  Guests are not, and should not feel, obligated to give gifts.  Instead of writing on your wedding invitations, “In lieu of gifts we don't need, give us money,” try a more subtle approach.

• You could tell your close family members and wedding party that you prefer cash for your down payment (or home improvement or honeymoon, etc.), should anyone ask.  People will always ask your mom, your sister, or your best friend what you need/want.  You can ask that they say that any gift would be welcome but cash is a top wish.
• People don't want to pay for your wedding.  Not directly anyway.  But they do want to help you and your new spouse have a happily ever after.  Give their cash even more value by saying it will be put towards a specific item or expense.  This poem, found on Mag.weddingcentral.com does this in a cute way:

If you were thinking of giving a gift, to help us on our way

A gift of cash towards our house would really make our day.

However, if you prefer to purchase a gift, feel free to surprise us in your own way.

• If you create a wedding website, you can work your request into your gift section.  Why shouldn't money be on your registry?
• There are some sites, including Wedistry.com, that allow guests to contribute money towards a specific item.  For instance, if you want a fancy new oven, your guests can chip in.  This isn't cash, but it's the next best thing.
• TheKnot.com allows you to create a registry into which guests contribute money.  The money is then given to you in the form of a gift card so you can choose the items you want and need. SunTrustBank has created a bridal registry that allows guests to put money into a trust dedicated to a house down payment.  You can also find sites that allow guests to contribute to a honeymoon in the same way.  Always check out these sites before to determine their legitimacy and safety. After that, register!

The bottom line is that, though weddings and marriages have changed, there is still no good way to come right out and ask for money.  There are guests, particularly from older generations, who will want to purchase a gift.  They will honor a registry, but they may find it rude to be solicited for cash.  This is what a registry is for; go with a home improvement store, a supply store, or another useful site that has what you really need.  Your guests will get the hint.

Never, ever mention wedding gifts or money in your invitations. There is no question: this is rude. You can spread the word through your family and friends; you can register for cash or specific items; you can let it be known that you are saving for a down payment or a home improvement project.  Ultimately, though, it is up to the guests to decide.  And it is up to you to thank them.

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Spring Greens

The most obvious color option when borrowing from the great outdoors in the spring is green.  It can be seen everywhere one looks- unless, of course, he or she is out to sea or in the desert.  The myriad of greens that can be seen on trees, fields, and gardens offer a number of options for choosing the color of bridesmaid’s dresses, ribbon to tie off bouquets, featured on the cake, and to decorate table tops at a reception.  Whether sage or seaweed, greens can be beautiful as a backdrop for your dress of white.  The drawback is that photos taken in fields or in front of fully leaved trees may become overwhelmed with green tones.

Baby Blues

It is considered the season that welcomes rebirth, so why not choose a color that speaks to that theme.  Baby blues, which are found in the sky and sea, are gorgeous in a wedding setting.  On dresses, ties, cummerbunds, cakes, and tablecloths, light blue speaks to simplicity and sophistication.  It also works well with other brighter colors that might make an appearance in splashes, such as on the cake or in the bouquets carried down the aisle.

Rainbow

This is the time of year when the rains falls and wets the ground, making way for the gorgeous summer blooms to come.  With all that rain, one can also find the natural beauty of rainbows.  Not a traditional look for a wedding, but beautiful nonetheless, rainbows can make for a beautiful theme for a wedding.  Dress each bridesmaid in her own color, keeping consistency through style, and pair her with a groomsman sporting the same color on his tie, in his corsage, or on his cummerbund.  The cake can be decorated with a full array of colorful flowers, drawing on each of the colors being worn by your party, and wedding favors can follow the rainbow theme as well.

Dreamy Daffodil

Well recognized as a spring flower, the Daffodil offers a gorgeous buttery yellow, which would be exquisite in the wedding setting.  Soft and warm, welcoming the coming months of nice weather, yellow provides a very natural and happy appeal. An arm full of long stemmed daffodils will make the perfect bouquet for the bridal march.

Tasteful Tulip

Much like with the rainbow theme, tulips, the spring flower, offer a variety of color to make the wedding party create excitement and wonder.  Deep reds, purples, pinks, yellows, and oranges can be found on the gorgeous blooms.  Pairing attendants once again, you might opt to display the color in a tulip attached to the groomsmen’s lapels, and carry the flower inspiration in a gorgeous colorful bouquet as well.

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Anniversary	Traditional	Modern
1st	Paper	Clocks
2nd	Cotton	China
3rd	Leather	Crystal or glass
4th	Fruit or flowers	Appliances
5th	Wood	Silverware
6th	Candy or Iron	Wood
7th	Wool or Copper	Desk Sets
8th	Bronze	Linens or Lace
9th	Pottery	Leather
10th	Tin or Aluminum	Diamond Jewelry
11th	Steel	Fashion Jewelry
12th	Silk	Pearls
13th	Lace	Textiles or Furs
14th	Ivory	Gold Jewelry
15th	Crystal	Watches
20th	China	Platinum
25th	Silver	Silver
30th	Pearl	Diamond
35th	Coral	Jade
40th	Ruby	Ruby
45th	Sapphire	Sapphire
50th	Gold	Gold
55th	Emerald	Emerald

Few couples are married for over 55 years, but if you know such a lucky bride and groom, get them anything they want!

Traditional gift lists originated in the Middle Ages when couples who had been married for 25 years celebrated with silver gifts. This is, of course, why we call this the Silver Anniversary.  Likewise, they gave each other gifts of gold for their 50^th, or Golden, Anniversary.  The significance of the gifts were probably symbolic of the relationship, but also intended to bring luck to the couple.  Only “major” anniversaries – 1^st, 5^th, 10^th, 20^th, 25^th, 50^th, and 75^th - were given corresponding gift suggestions for centuries. In 1937, however, the American National Retail Jeweler Association created a list with a gift for each year until the 20^th year, and then each fifth year after that.  Modern lists add even more by suggesting a material for each year.

You will notice that the wedding gifts start humbly and then increase in substance (and cost).  This is to accommodate the budget of new couples. Traditionally, the first year has been the one in which couples purchase a house, move, and/or start a family.  This is not always the case today, and there is a wide range of newlywed budgets.  Luckily, there is also room in the list to accommodate for different budgets.

So, who do these suggestions apply to, exactly?  Are you supposed to give your new husband paper for your first anniversary – and do you want paper in return?  The gift list is intended mainly for the couple, as well as their parents, family, and close friends.  While you certainly do not have to adhere to the list, it can be helpful if you are out of ideas and need some inspiration.  And remember, this is only a starting point: you have room for creativity and contemporary style, and you can maneuver within your specific budget. How?

Here's an example:  the first anniversary is paper.  If you are contending with a low budget, as many new couples are, you can give your spouse a love letter, a picture of the two of you, a painting or piece of art that you made.  One husband made his wife, with whom he had a long-distance courtship, a book composed of the emails they had sent each other throughout that time. They were printed nicely and bound; a memento they will both treasure.  If you have a larger budget, you could buy a pair of tickets to a concert or sporting event, a first edition of a favorite book, or a gift certificate for a luxury spa day.  Suddenly paper is much more exciting and romantic, no?

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• You’re going to want to make it easy on the bride to plan and coordinate the big day. So to ensure she’s stress-free and able to enjoy her own wedding, take on some of the tasks she may not have time or want to do.
• Offer to be her backup support in the wedding planning. Does she want you to run errands, scout out decorations, address envelopes, or help with other bridal essentials? Ask and keep on asking so she has less to worry about. But also take no for an answer. If she wants to do something herself, don’t be offended.
• The Maid of Honor will traditionally throw a bridal shower and bachelorette party, but bridesmaids are often asked to chip in to pay for them. Make it easy on everyone and just plan for the expense. Contribute as much as you can.
• Help the bride smile by loving whatever bridesmaid dress she picks out. It may be polka dotted velvet in July, but if that’s what she wants, your job is to wear it. Also agree to whatever accessories the bride wants you to wear. If she’d like you to all get matching dyed shoes, do it. Ditto for any earrings or necklaces she asks you to wear.
• You’re there to attend to the bride on her big day. So, from the second she wakes up to all the way through the reception, you’re her right hand. The Maid of Honor will normally be the one fixing the bride’s train at the church and holding her flowers for her. But the other bridesmaids are just as important. You’re standing up for the bride and giving her moral support on the biggest day of her life.
• Step in and divert disaster before it happens. Bring a bag full of emergency supplies to share with the other bridesmaids such as extra panty hose, clear nail polish to stop runs, headache medicine, bottled water, super glue (in case someone’s heel breaks), nail file, etc. By preparing for anything, you will allow the bride to focus her attention elsewhere.
• Ask the bride if she needs anything to eat or drink. Often, the bride is so preoccupied that she forgets to eat and feels faint later.
• Make sure the flowers are all where they should be. Does everyone have their bouquets? Did the groomsmen get their boutonnieres? If not, go get them.
• At the church, it’s okay to mill around and talk with guests before the ceremony. Just be sure to be where you’re supposed to be when the ceremony starts. And try to round up the rest of the bridal party and keep them all in one place. No bride wants to be delayed by a wayward bridal party member.
• As your turn comes to walk down the aisle, go slowly and smile. Stand up at the altar with a lovely smile on your face at all times and don’t look distracted even if it’s 104 degrees in the shade. This is your big acting job. Everyone’s looking at the bridal party, so be alert.
• Mingle at the reception with everyone you can. The bride will be busy doing so many things, but she’ll want to remember that her bridal party had fun at the reception. So, get up from your seat and dance, talk and socialize so the bride doesn’t have to worry about entertaining you.
• Make people feel comfortable. Many people will know no one but the bride or groom, so try to talk to people who look like they’re alone.
• Don't expect anything in return, although many brides will thank you and the girls with bridesmaid gifts.
• Show your gratitude and overall just make sure that everything runs smoothly for the couple.

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Ask the bride what’s required of you. Chances are, she has everything planned out to the finest details. So she will know where and when you are needed on the big day. Every bride differs on how much involvement the Best Man has, so do check with her.

You’re in charge of getting the groom to the church on time. It’s your biggest role at the wedding. If the groom’s been out the night before at his bachelor party and has overslept, you’re the one to make sure he’s up, showered and shaved by the appointed delivery time. Then, drive him to the ceremony. There won’t be any limos at this point (those are reserved for the ladies) so plan to have a clean and reliable car to escort the groom in.

Locate the other groomsmen and try to keep them together so they will be ready to line up for their entrance with the bridesmaids.

As guests enter the church, you will probably be asked to escort important guests to their seats. The bride’s and groom’s grandmothers or elderly relatives will want a strong arm to walk them down the aisle. Escort anyone who asks you as a courtesy.

The rings are your responsibility whether or not there is a ring bearer. Often, if there is a pint sized nephew he will carry a ring pillow with two stand-in rings tied to it. You will often have the real rings. If the little guy has the actual rings tied to his pillow, don’t take your eyes off him! If there is no ring bearer, it’s all up to you. Don’t wait until you get to the ceremony to ask for the rings. The groom may have forgotten them at home. When you arrive to pick up the groom, ensure that he has the rings and take full responsibility for them at that time. Keep them in a ring box in your tuxedo jacket pocket (don’t put them in a raincoat pocket as you’ll be taking it off). When it comes time for the minister to ask for the rings, hand them over without the box. You may want to slip them out of the box and onto your pointer finger ahead of time while keeping your hand in your pocket.

Now you can breathe easy for a little while. Other than accompanying the Maid of Honor down the aisle at the end of the ceremony, you’re off duty until the reception. Escort the ladies into any waiting limos and then climb in yourself. At this point, many couples choose to have the entire bridal party ride from the ceremony to the reception together in a hired car.

Once at the reception, you’re first in command for damage control. It’s your responsibility to see that everything runs smoothly. No toilet paper in the men’s room? Let someone know. Are the appetizers cold when they should be hot? Alert the kitchen.

Often you will be entrusted with paying off any final balances to caterers, the bakery who does the cake, piano player, etc. Find out in advance who you’ll be responsible for settling balances with and then have the checks on hand in your suit pocket.

The speech is your big moment. Every eye will be on you. You can make it as witty or as clever as you like, but keep it short. This is not the time to tell a lengthy story that ends in a private joke between you and the groom. Keep it light and wish the couple well.

One of your last jobs is to dance with the Maid of Honor. You’ll make your way onto the dance floor right after the couple does their first dance together or in some cases towards the end of that dance the entire bridal party will join the bride and groom on the dance floor.

When all is said and done, pat yourself on the back for all your hard work. Your friend/family member will be lucky to have you! And if you're lucky, you might even get a little best man gift as a token of their appreciation.

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